People date for many wrong reasons; looks, attractiveness, s*x and a whole lot of other irrelevant factors. Dating for the wrong reasons might be bad but it doesn’t even come close to marrying for the wrong reasons; it’s surprising that people sometimes get married for the wrong reasons.
Getting married for the wrong reasons would give you more sadness than joy, but when you get married to your partner for the right reasons, which should include love then your marriage would not just be the next best thing after anything you could think of, rather it would be the best thing.
Marriage sometimes could be quite complicating and it’s surprising that people get married for many flimsy reasons.
I would share 8 reasons why you should only get married to the right person, for the right reasons.
1. YOUR HAPPINESS WOULD BE GUARANTEED
The best thing about marriage is marrying someone you actually love and the person loves you without measure in return. When love is the bedrock of a marriage, so many other factors would come along with and that should include understanding; with love and understanding in a marriage, nothing could actually become better than that.
2. THE MARRIAGE WOULD BE SOLID
When you get carried away and marry for the wrong reasons, then you start a mission against time from your wedding day; a mission to when the marriage would actually crash. When love is the reason you and your partner marry each other then the marriage wouldn’t easily be shaken, the love for each other would add a lot in making that marriage work.
3. WITH THE WRONG PERSON, YOUR LIFE WOULD BE A LIVING HELL
If you don’t marry because you love someone then you have successfully made your life a living hell, and that is no ordinary feat. How long can you pretend to be in a marriage where love doesn’t exist especially when you would have to be with that person for the rest of your life? There are certain things that wouldn’t last and marriage to someone you have little feelings for is definitely one of them.
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