6 OF THE BEST CHRISTMAS MESSAGES TO SEND YOUR PARTNER THIS CHRISTMAS

Christmas is here again and the celebrations have kicked off all over. If you are thinking of messages to send your partner, I have got 6 of the best Christmas messages.
Below are the messages that would put a smile on the face of your partner

1. You are the gift I ask Santa for every Christmas. Merry Christmas to the one I love.

2. Having you as my lover makes me feel as if it is Christmas all year round. The warmth and comfort that comes with this season reminds me of you.

3. Feelings are many but words are few. Clouds are dark but the sky is blue. Love is a paper, life is glue. Everything is false, only my love is true. Merry Christmas.

4. This is the season for bright lights and shiny packages. It is a time for sharing love and being together. It is a time for wishing you all the best.

5. Time to celebrate the birth of the only one who could love you more than me. Merry Christmas to you my darling.

6. Why do I need Christmas presents when I already have you? Merry Christmas to the most beautiful angel on earth. I love you.

5 THINGS EVERY SINGLE LADY SHOULD KNOW

While some ladies treat being single as normal, others hate it when they are single; they just get too frustrated when they are single. For all the single ladies out there, I have got 5 things you need to know
1. DON’T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS SAY:
It’s so easy to get frustrated and worry too much if you are a single woman who is in her 30s. The pressure from friends and family can just be too much to handle. As a single woman, you need to understand it’s your life and you shouldn’t live it for others. No one should control your relationships for you; you alone should be in control.
2. BETTER TO HAVE A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE:
If you ask those that have gone through divorce, they would tell you it’s much easier ending a relationship than ending a marriage. You go through a lot when you end a marriage and because you are now single after your last relationship failed doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world for you.
3. BETTER TO BE SINGLE THAN BEING WITH THE WRONG PARTNER:
You should understand that because your best friend is in a relationship doesn’t mean they are happy in that relationship. Some people endure being in an unhealthy relationship because they are scared of being single. You should get so frustrated and end up with a person you don’t love.
4. ENJOY YOUR SINGLE STATUS:
You should enjoy being single because you won’t be restricted from doing whatever you want to do. Instead of worrying about being single, I think you should instead live life and be happy. Learn new skills, make new friends etc.
5. TIME TO STOP SOME NEGATIVE HABITS:
When you are single it’s important you use that time to re-evaluate why your previous relationship came to an end and try to make yourself a better person. Maybe you are someone who gets angry easily, you should use that time to work on yourself and you never know, your ideal man could just be around the corner.
Being single isn’t the end of the world.

5 REASONS WHY MEN ARE SCARED OF MARRIAGE

Before now, men believed in marriage. More men understood the significance of the union, and what it means to have a person in your life with whom you can share your life, and raise a family with; but today, the story isn’t quite the same. More men are running away from marriage, and it’s alarming. Rather than get married, more men want to live the single life longer than is acceptable.

So what is really responsible for this growing new trend? Well, here’s what I think…

1. FEAR OF GIVING UP THEIR FREEDOM

A lot of men feel like getting married means they’re no longer in control of their lives. They believe that once you get married, you’ll have to submit to the whims of your ‘tyrannical bride’ in order to keep the marriage a happy one. So, In order to avoid this ‘loss of freedom’, they avoid marriage all together. They’d rather not marry in order to be able to come and go as they please, hang out at the clubs, engage in their hobbies, and just live their life the way they desire without having to be responsible to another person, but this thought pattern is only a result of immaturity and the lack of understanding of marriage because it doesn’t have to be like this. The only way this can be a reality is if you marry the wrong person—the kind of person that wants you to fit into their box instead of appreciating you for the person you are. More men need to understand that marriage isn’t a death sentence on their lives, but an opportunity to share it with a wonderful person if they do the right thing and select the right mate for them.

2. FEAR OF LOSING THEIR FRIENDS

I’ve heard some men say they don’t want to give up their lives, friends, and social life in exchange for their bride and family. You might think I’m kidding, but I’m serious. They act as if there is no way their new life of marriage can co-exist with their friends, but that isn’t true. Marriage and personal life can coexist…you just need to find a balance.

3. THE BELIEF IN THE MARRIAGE STEREOTYPES

You must be aware that there are men who believe all the stereotypes of marriage and want nothing to do with them. They are certain their wife is going to ‘nag them to death’ about any and everything. The wife is going to transform into a sexless being that is all about money, the kids, and whine. She is going to become a strict task master who only wants to see her own wishes done, and nothing more.

This belief is funny, because clearly, men who think like this are getting their information from non-married people or unhappily married men. These stereotypes are wrong and off base (depending on who you marry). I think it is most important to select the right person to marry and if you do, then you will live a wonderful married life. If not, you could become one of these bitter men walking around perpetuating these marriage stereotypes

4. FEAR OF COMMITMENT

This is true, most men have a classic fear of commitment; you know, that type most people talk about when it comes to marriage. Being with one person is something that seems unnatural to most men. They are afraid to be vulnerable and completely give themselves up for another person in addition to all the horror stories they are told about marriage.

I think this fear is a natural feeling all people experience. However, I think marriage can be an amazing experience if you’re with the right person. Of course, there’ll be rough patches, but being with the right person makes it all worth it. I don’t think there’s anything like coming home to that one person that knows you best and has a big smile on her face because she has been wanting to see you all day.

5. THE NIGHTMARISH FINANCIAL INVESTMENT THAT COMES WITH GETTING MARRIED

Women tend to dream about the fairy tale wedding, but men think about the nightmarish wedding expense(s). This is very true; men really don’t dream about the wedding day. It is all an expense to them. Besides, how many people do you know who have spent huge money on their wedding day and ended up divorced? TOO MANY! Men think about this constantly and find it to be foolish, but will do it if their bride insists.

Bottom line is; marriage is a beautiful thing. Life is worth sharing with a special person, and marriage offers you a platform to have that for the longer term. There’s nothing scary about marriage. Guys, find your special someone, get married, have kids, and grow old together!

And oh…Compliments of the season to all of you, our esteemed readers.