9 LOVE QUOTES TO GINGER OUR LOVE LIFE THIS YEAR

It’s a new year, and there would be no better way than to start the year than with love. When you have a happy relationship, you tend to have a happier life, and a happier life would be the best antidepressant you could wish for.
To prep ourselves for a better love life this year, I have some of the best love quotes from seasoned authors; ginger your love life with these:

1. “Loving someone can be hard at times. You risk a lot when you love – your heart and soul, at the least. Love is the most important and most rewarding investment you can make in another person”. — J.E.B. Spredemann 

2. “If you can’t get someone off your mind they are probably supposed to be there.” —Unknown

3. “Love is knowing that no matter what is done at the end of day, you won’t change your mind, it’s only wanting what’s best for that special person.” —Unknown

4. “It’s one thing to turn a friend into a lover, but it’s completely different to try to turn a lover into a friend.” —Uknown

5. “They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can’t stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that’s a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!” —C. JoyBell C

6. “It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.” —John Joseph Powell

7. “Love isn’t about having sex, it’s about finding that special someone and loving every minute you’re with them, no matter what you’re doing.” —Anonymous

8. “When you touch a man’s heart, he will remember it forever.” —Dixie Waters
Finally, I would end with this special quote: “Even when it seems that there is no one else, always remember there’s one person who never ceased to love you – yourself. —Sanhita Baruah

WHAT’S LOVE TO YOU?

Dr James Dobson defines love as an expression of the deepest appreciation for another human being; it is awareness of his or her needs and longings- past, present and future. It is unselfish, giving and caring.
Love is one word that’s been misused these days for probably selfish reasons; it’s been abused, overused and has even been confused with lust that its meaning holds no weights anymore and its existence has even been doubted by countless.
What’s love to you? Is it finding perfection in an imperfect partner or rather nagging, mocking and complaining about an imperfect partner?
What’s love really? Is it being affectionate to a person like no other or is just having an illusion that you care about two, three, four and even more persons at the same time?
Do you find love in a partner for happiness or do you only derive happiness in just the material things you can gain?
How can we really define love? Love has been defined as a friendship caught on fire; a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce in the beginning, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love become as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable but how many can boast of such?
Jackson Brown Jr defines love as something the heart sees that is invisible to the eye. This means love can never be confused with lust even if people try to. What really is love? Can it be defined by public display of affection or in the feeling of the sweetness of a partner; as Jean de la Bruyere stated “The sweetest of all sounds is that of the voice of the woman we love.”
But how do we really define love? Is there a perfect line for it? A deep quote by Nicholas Sparks reads “Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day.”
What’s love to you?

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO IMMEDIATELY AFTER HAVING SEX

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Sex is lovely, sex brings intimacy but sometimes we act in ways that kill this pleasurable act. Most people are guilty of killing the mood due to the actions after sex. I understand for some, it’s something they don’t do intentionally so I decided to write about this.
Below are 5 things you should never do immediately after having sex
1. QUICKLY WEAR YOUR CLOTHES: quickly wearing your clothes after sex doesn’t show intimacy, it kills what you just shared with your partner.
2. CHECKING YOUR PHONE: making a call sending messages or doing whatever with your phone isn’t the right thing to do immediately after sex. You pass the wrong message to your partner when you do this.
3. TURNING ON THE TV: watching soccer or a cartoon isn’t the right thing to do immediately after sharing a passionate moment with your partner.
4. HURRYING TO THE BATHROOM: yes I understand you need to have a shower after a hot and amazing sex but it shouldn’t be immediately after sex. You need to spend some time with your partner before you visit the bathroom. It’s even better when you have a shower together after sex.
5. FALLING ASLEEP: most people do this and it’s not the best thing to do after sex. Sleeping immediately after sex won’t give you the opportunity to cuddle and enjoy the moment you just shared with your partner.

Have an amazing sex life with your partner