7 REASONS YOU CAN’T GET HER TO CLIMAX

Climax is said to be the maximum satisfaction of sex, it’s the most intense point of sexual pleasure, and sadly enough, not every man guide his lady to climax.
Ladies don’t know this but men constantly reveal their frustration to each other when they can’t get their lady to climax and the ones who have gotten their lady to climax always boast about it with fellow men.
There are a million and one reasons you can’t get that lady to climax, I’d share 7 possible reasons why she hasn’t witnessed the ‘big O’ when in the sheets with you.
1. PENETRATIVE SEX ISN’T ALWAYS ENOUGH
Very few ladies would claim to have reached climax while having sex but easily attain orgasm when given oral sex or when they help themselves out—so this really means penetrative isn’t really the easier option. A woman’s pleasure and orgasm is more likely to occur from the stimulation of the clit. The clit is highly sensitive and full of nerve endings while in contrast the V-walls have relatively fewer nerve endings.
2. STRESS
Many people don’t know this but stress has quite an effect on a woman’s ability to climax. Having a balanced life is one of the keys to boosting libido; stress can sap a person’s libido by affecting hormones and mood. However sexual arousal is a form of good stress which the body resolves by climaxing. Your diet, rest and physical activities all have an effect on your sexual life, so if a woman is getting the negatives from those, it would affect her orgasmic level on the long run.
3. THE MIND-SET
The mind-set also plays a huge role in a lady’s orgasm. If she isn’t in the mood for sex and she has sex with you, reaching climax would be totally difficult because the mind actually almost controls the body. Climaxing could be psychological as researchers have found that anxiety, depression and a whole lot disturbing the mind can make a woman not to climax. In other words, your mind has to be relaxed and free before you can actually climax.
4. FOREPLAY
Most men don’t really have that patience for foreplay and that in itself is a major reason why you can’t lead her to climax. Foreplay is the stimulant that could lead her on to climaxing; adequate time should be spent on foreplay as so many sensitive parts of the body are discovered during foreplay. So many women have admitted climaxing just by stimulation around their breasts—that’s the power of foreplay.
5. HOW IS THE NON-SEXUAL PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP
This is also another part most people fail to look at. Sex isn’t just physical, sex is as well psychological and the non-sexual part of the relationship would go a long way in affecting the sexual part of the relationship. What’s the passion like in your relationship? Do the quarrels come in thick and fast? Are you best of friends with your partner? Do you spend lots of time having fun together? You may think these aren’t really necessary but they are; the negatives and positives in the answer to those questions would determine a lot in a woman climaxing.
6. PILLS
Yea, sometimes it boils down to even pills that you think are just ordinary. Pills also affect a woman’s orgasmic level. Research has explored the role of anti-depressants in sexual functioning as certain medications seem to affect a woman’s ability to climax. Decreased libido is a frequently reported side effect of certain antidepressants called Selective Serontonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs).
7. FEELINGS OF ANGER AND RESENTMENT
When a lady has this feeling of anger or resentment for her man, it would be quite a difficult task leading her to climax; I mean, why would she totally enjoy sex with someone she has resentment for? Resentment and anger could lead to a lack of desire in woman’s sexual behaviour and this could make her find it more difficult to climax. So fellas, it’s highly important you put your lady’s feeling into considerable value.

Research has found that as a woman approaches climax, the part of the brain responsible for fear, anxiety and emotion relaxes and lowers in activity, meaning there is more to her climaxing than just physical stimulation. For men, physical stimulation just seems to be quite enough but for a woman it goes beyond that; a woman needs to be emotionally connected, safe, relaxed and balanced to climax, but a huge problem is almost every partner seems to concentrate only on physical stimulation.

5 WRONG THINGS PEOPLE MAKE AS PRIORITY WHILE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP PARTNER

A relationship is one of those major life decisions that if made hastily, it could haunt you.
One huge mistake in choosing a relationship partner is that people mostly look out for what mere wants rather than what a successful relationship really needs. Setting the wrong priorities when choosing that partner is the measure of a failed relationship because such a relationship has already been set to fail right from the onset.
When you set the right values in choosing a relationship partner, solidity would be the base of that relationship but if otherwise that relationship could just become as fragile as an egg.
5 things you shouldn’t make your priority when choosing that relationship partner
1. SEX APPEAL
Okay, I once heard a man say he would only get married to a girl that has big butts and big boobs—that’s sex appeal; he’s only attracted to women with big butts and boobs. You can’t blame him for those attractions since everyone has what appeals to them but making it a top priority is a whole new low and a disastrous one at that. If the wobbles that come with marriage surfaces then even that big butt and boobs wouldn’t be attractive to you anymore. A successful relationship/marriage is way bigger than sex appeal and any that’s based solely on sex appeal has already been built to fall.
2. LOOKS
He must be tall, handsome, huge, must have a charming smile, neatly arranged eye brows, cute dark eyes and the rest of it. She must be very beautiful with a figure 8 shape, shiny dark hair, charming eyes, angelic smile, cute lips and the rest of it. If it were a car, you would have the best car that would be well suited to you since it can be custom made—designed specifically to your requirements. However, looks go a little way in defining a successful relationship. If you want to define your partner like a custom made-car then you just might be heading to a ditch—looks are great but can be deceitful, some things are way more important than looks.
3. AVAILABILITY
Okay, I’ve been single for a very long time, all my friends are getting married, I’m getting older—maybe I should just pick anybody that comes my way. Unfortunately, this happens a lot, but when did ‘anybody’ become good for somebody. Entering that relationship with just anybody won’t guarantee you happiness. Sometimes being single might not be an appealing option but getting married to the wrong person is an even worse option.
4. CLASS
I love him/her but she isn’t in my class; I need a man/woman that’s classy—class is also another common priority that is regularly associated with marriage and relationship. The contradictory part of it is people actually do fall in love with someone but due to family pressure or peer pressure end such relationships just to pursue class. Your marriage/relationship might look classy to the public eye but if there is no happiness in it then there is totally no class in it.
5. WEALTH
Inasmuch as almost everything in the world is run on money and a relationship when there is money looks more appealing, money shouldn’t really be the top priority when choosing that relationship partner. A relationship isn’t a business, it isn’t a career, it isn’t a profession and wealth shouldn’t be the major reason for choosing a partner. I’m not suggesting that you shouldn’t choose a relationship partner that is wealthy, I’m only pointing out that it shouldn’t be the top priority. Besides, a man who isn’t wealthy today might be wealthy tomorrow; so does that mean he wasn’t good enough yesterday but became good enough today? Choose a partner you love and you are happy with and build success and wealth with that person.

We sometimes get carried away with the superfluous external appeal of a person forgetting that a successful relationship has more to do with the internal than the external, so placing more importance on the external than the internal means you are placing top priority on what’s not so important than what’s so important.

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