SEX ON THE FIRST DATE: DOES IT EVENTUALLY PAN OUT WELL?
Sex is always a big thing and first dates aren’t a small thing
either, as they are filled with certain suspense, questions and
inquisitiveness like ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’; meaning sex and first dates are
two variables that can cause a stir on its own, talk more about a
combination of both.
Sex on the first date is risky, mostly for the ladies; the odds that
the relationship would go on the right foot after a quick launch in
between the sheets is quite minimal. Naturally, men are like hunters,
the harder the meat he catches, the more value he gives to it and the
lesser meat doesn’t mean much to him. In other words, if a lady can lead
a man on before finally letting him, it would be more like he’s earned
the right to become that intimate with you.
Secondly, passion means a lot in a relationship; having sex all too
quickly would kill the passion of waiting for the right time. Sex can
kill the passion in a relationship especially if it comes too quickly or
hurriedly. When you bid your time, you build the passion and desire,
and you also enjoy the whole process of a man trying to be charming
enough to win your heart.
Thirdly, the test factor is always important; jumping into sex is too
big a decision to make hastily. With the test factor, you get to know
if he’s just there for the sex or he really cares; with the test factor,
you get to know who he really is, you get to know more about him and
this is really important, knowing a lot about a man you intend dating is
really a must if you want to build a successful relationship.
Sex on the first date might be fun but a successful relationship
isn’t just about fun, it needs maturity and an understanding partner —
sex can wait while you sort first things first.
ARE YOU HEARTBROKEN? IT ONLY TAKES 3 MONTHS TO CURE YOUR BROKEN HEART, ACCORDING TO SCIENCE
Are you heartbroken? Are you bothered it might take eternity to cure
your broken heart? You need not worry about the amount of time needed to
cure your broken heart as researchers seem to have found the answer and
its three months according to them.
So will this research end the classic debate of how long it takes to cure a broken heart?
According to a study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology,
researchers claim that 11 weeks after breakup is enough time to heal a
broken heart. They came to this conclusion after 71 percent of
participants in the study were able to view their relationship in a
positive light after heartbreak in 11 weeks.
Why is it really hard to let go of an ex?
According to the researchers from Stony Brook University, it’s hard
to let go of your ex because your brain is addicted to love. So next
time you think of your ex and feel sad, blame it on your nucleus
accumbens, the area of your brain associated with reward, which
researchers believe is harbouring that addiction.
Heartbreaks are painful too and there is a study to back it up.
According to a study published in the Psychological Science Journal, the
heart rates actually slow down when we’re unexpectedly rejected. So
when next you feel slowed down and exhausted after a heartbreak,
remember your heart rate has actually slowed down.
So is there any who is heartbroken among us? Cheer up; you would be fine in 3 months.
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