6 REASONS YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE A PARTNER THAT’S TRYING SO HARD

To be a good partner isn’t easy, but even at that, to find a good partner is an even harder task. I mean if there were better partners there would be lesser divorces, fewer scenes of domestic violence, lesser breakups and heart breaks, lesser feeling of loneliness and rejection, lesser unhappiness rate in relationship—I can go on and on
The fact that there are terrible partners out there doesn’t mean that there aren’t good partners; sometimes people even have good partners and even let them go for some careless reasons. Also, some partners aren’t there yet, they still fall short of being that dream partner but the good part is upon all their shortcomings, they still try hard to be that better person to their partner—even such a partner should be appreciated.
I would share six reasons why you should appreciate the two kinds of partners mentioned above.
1. YOUR PARTNER WOULD FEEL APPRECIATED
Of course, we all know how the feeling of being appreciated is. When you appreciate your partner, there is this unexplainable feeling within that partner that only that partner can understand. That feeling of being appreciated makes you feel worthy —just like a young kid in school that’s being congratulated by her parents for improving from 10th position in class to 4th position—she might not be in the top three yet but she would feel worthy within her and would put in more efforts to go tops in her class.
2. YOUR PARTNER WOULD BE HAPPY
Everyone wants to be appreciated, everyone wants to be told ‘job well done’; there is this sense of happiness that comes with being appreciated, and a happy relationship starts with a happy partner. If your partner is disgruntled, you would never have that happy relationship.
3. WOULD BE WILLING TO DO MORE
The great thing about being appreciative of your partner is the fact that you would even be the one to reap the benefits. Imagine a lady thanking her man for taking her out on a date, it would mean more dates, more gifts and loads of flowers. Imagine a man appreciating his lady for probably a wonderful meal or for being a loving partner —trust me when I say that lady would go the extra mile in being there for her man. In the end it’s usually a win-win situation
4. YOUR PARTNER WOULD FEEL LOVED
Appreciation is a huge sign of love, as far as it is sincere. It’s even better not to appreciate your partner than giving out an insincere appreciation. Appreciating your partner would make your partner feel loved and when your partner feels that love for what he/she has done then your relationship can only go one place from there—the top.
5. IT SHOWS YOU’RE OBSERVANT
On your part, being a partner that can be appreciative of what’s been done for you only shows the good qualities in you. It shows you are an observant partner, shows a mature side of you and as well shows someone who wants his/her relationship to move forward. The better part of it all is that your partner would notice these as well.
6. IT INCREASES THE BOND
The aforementioned reasons only goes to show one thing—being appreciative would increase the bond between you and your partner. When your partner is happy, you would as well be happy; when your partner feels that love, you would as well; and when your partner is willing to do more for your, the bond in your relationship would grow in leaps and bounds.

Like I mentioned earlier, appreciating your partner is a win-win situation, nobody becomes a loser in doing that. Don’t wait for your partner to bring down the skies for you, appreciate the little things that’s being done for you and your partner wouldn’t only bring down the skies for you but the stars as well—a relationship in the stars, now that’s romantic.

NOT FOR LAUGHS: 7 FUNNY THINGS GUYS DO AFTER A BREAKUP

Men also feel terrible after a bad breakup even though we act all stoics and put up a James Bond appearance after a bad breakup —deep down we feel terrible too and do some funny stuffs that would make us laugh years later. A study even found that men are more emotional than women, just that men are better at hiding their emotions.
Well, the guys have had their fun knowing the 7 things ladies do after a breakup, now it’s time for the ladies to live in the man’s world and know exactly how he feels after a breakup.
Put a smile on your face as I bring you seven funny things guys do after a breakup.

1. TELL HIS FRIENDS HE’S OKAY…WHEN HE ISN’T
It’s quite okay for a lady to cry and even cry when she’s with her friends, but it’s never okay for a man to cry and even to cry in front of his friends and it’s even more embarrassing to cry about a lady—it’s probably more like a guy code thing; because of this mentality guys try to act calm and assure their pals that they are doing good when deep down they are probably crying a river.
2. STARE AT HER PICTURES
Most guys still stare at the pictures of an ex after a bad breakup; you wouldn’t know he’s doing that; he wouldn’t let you see him. The funny thing about it is the mixed emotions that come with the picture and he may end up tearing the pic into pieces but he would still rather have his lady back.
3. FIGHT WITHIN HIMSELF NOT TO CALL HER BACK
This one is a surety that guys do after a breakup and this goes on to test how strong emotionally he really is. This emotion usually comes up probably a week after a breakup; he might get tempted to call her back and another mind within tells him it’s a dumb move; so many guys would give in and call her back while many would also resist the urge to, but the funny thing is the urge must come.
4. ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME
The usual time men come up with this statement is probably after a bad breakup —she wasn’t the same when he was dating her and definitely before he started dating, but just after the breakup she’s just like the rest. We really are a funny bunch

5. FIND A FRIEND IN ALCOHOL
You want to know when a guy loves alcohol the most? It’s probably after a breakup; even guys who don’t take alcohol or who take very little alcohol sees the fun in alcohol just after that breakup. Alcohol just seems to be that friend indeed at such times.
6. STALK ON FACEBOOK
Almost everyone stalk on their ex on Facebook and guys aren’t left out. A study has even gone on to find that over 70 percent of people actually check their ex out on Facebook and I actually agree with this. Most blokes check their ex out on Facebook and still admire them when they see a new picture of them, even though we pretend not to.
7. TRIES TO IMPRESS OR MAKE HER JEALOUS 
Many guys do different things just to get their lady’s attention after a breakup; some show off with a new girl and just hopes it touches a nerve in her. The funny part is he isn’t getting that new girl because he actually likes her; he’s only using her to get back at his ex and make her miss him.

I’m quite sure must fellas have done one or more of these things after a bad breakup. Come on guys, what have you done after a breakup

5 SIGNS HE IS DATING YOU BECAUSE OF THE SEX AND NOTHING MORE

So ladies, you met this great dude and you have probably had some nights of amazing sex with him; you want more but something deep inside you tells you all this guy wants is sex and nothing more.
Below are 5 signs he is dating you because of the amazing sex he gets from you and nothing more
1. YOU DON’T KNOW HIS FRIENDS:
Men love showing off and they are always eager to show the woman they love to their pals so if you have probably dated him for months and he hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends, then you mean nothing to him and all he wants from you is just sex.
2. HE DOESN’T TAKE YOU OUT ON A DATE:
Can you remember the last time he took you out on a date? The answer is NO because he has never taken you out on a date before. If he is into you just for the sex, there would be no date nights; the normal routine would be you coming to his house probably very late at night and leaving early the next morning. He won’t take you out on a date because he doesn’t want to be seen with you.
3. HE DOESN’T TALK ABOUT HIS FUTURE PLANS WITH YOU:
When all he wants is sex, he doesn’t talk about his future plans with you because he knows you are not part of his future. When you talk about him not being committed, you hear replies like ‘I am not the relationship type’.
4. TOO MANY PROMISES TOO SOON:
It’s just been weeks or even days you met him and he promises you the moon and the stars. He just wants sex and nothing more. To keep the sex going, he keeps on promising more so you don’t leave. The chances of these gifts materialising are slim and if he wants to keep the sex coming from you, he might probably give you just 1% of the promises and keep you hoping for more.
5. HE ONLY CALLS YOU WHEN HE WANTS TO SEE YOU:
If all he loves about you is the sex you give him and nothing more, he would rarely call. He would only think of you when he wants sex from you and that’s when he would call. When a guy truly loves a woman, he wants to hear her talk always, when he all he loves about her is sex, then he would only call when he wants sex.