6 REASONS EVERY LADY WANTS PDA

PDA which is short for public display of affection is quite a normal relationship scene; ladies most times would love it when their man involves in a little PDA sometimes, while men are not always very comfortable with PDA.
You might be wondering why you must show her PDA and if PDA is really a measure of love. To a lady, PDA means a lot in the course of a relationship and she has her reasons why she just loves a show of PDA from her man.
6 reasons every lady wants PDA
1. SHOWS YOU’RE PROUD OF HER
For a man to show a lady public display of affection then it means to a certain extent he’s proud of being with her. Ladies understand that when a man can’t show his affection for his lady publicly then it could mean that he’s probably not proud of having her in his life. A man could be ashamed to show PDA if the lady is ugly, bad looking or unkempt and those sorts of reasons.
2. TO MARK HER TERRITORY
You would hardly see a woman that wants to share her man with other women; every woman wants to mark her territory and make sure other ladies are aware that her man is a no go area. Ladies are usually suspicious of other ladies especially when their man is rich, good-looking, stylish or cute; so with PDA, they let everyone know that he’s and hers alone.
3. TO BE SURE THE LOVE ISN’T JUST AN INDOOR THING
This slightly relates with the first tip. When a man is all over a lady indoors but does the opposite when they are out poses a kind of threat to the lady. Threats like: he doesn’t really love me, he doesn’t appreciate me, he’s probably seeing someone else, I might not even be his number one and a lot of other negatives, but when he shows PDA, she has this assurance that he actually cares and his love isn’t just an indoor thing.
4. TO BE SURE THERE IS NO SIDE CHIC 
If a man feels unsafe about PDA with his lady, he passes a message that there’s probably some other lady that he’s avoiding. So for a lady, if he feels comfortable with PDA then he’s probably clean.
5. TO BE SURE OF HIS FEELINGS
Like the name implies, PDA is a show of affection; if your partner can show affection to you in public then it passes a message of genuine feelings. A lady wants to be sure she isn’t in that relationship with herself; she wants to be sure that her man loves her the same way she loves him, and if he doesn’t show PDA then he’s definitely created room for doubts to breed.
6. IF YOU CAN SHOW YOUR FRIENDS THAT YOU CARE
Another huge reason most ladies love PDA is to make sure that her man can show what he claims even in front of his friends; the logic behind this is, if he doesn’t appreciate you in front of his friends then he probably doesn’t really value you, but if he can show that he loves you even when with his friends then he cares about you.

For a lady, PDA isn’t just PDA, it’s a test of affection; it shows care, love, affection and a lack of it might be suspicious, like there is something to hide. You wouldn’t blame a lady if she wants PDA, she has her reasons.
Viv 

5 RELATIONSHIP RULES THAT WOULD MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE

If we all want a better world with fewer conflicts, then we should follow the relationship rules listed below. The rules below won’t make the world a perfect place to live in but it would surely make it a better place.
Below are the rules
1. IF IT’S SEX YOU WANT FROM HER, JUST SAY IT: guys are guilty of breaking this rule. They just want a lady for sex alone and they would preach love. When they finally get her in their bed, everything ends. Imagine a world where guys are honest.
2. IF YOU WANT HIS MONEY, MAKE IT CLEAR: the major culprits are the ladies. They probably want a particular guy because he is rich but they preach love to him so they could have access to his finance. When they can’t get anymore, they jump to the next available guy with a huge wallet.
3. IF YOU TRULY LOVE HIM/HER, SAY IT: why keep it to yourself when you truly love that person. They could just be feeling the same way too and you would never know if you don’t try. I think we are not being fair to ourselves when we fail to express how we feel and suffer quietly.
4. SEX IS LOVELY BUT IT’S NOT EVERYTHING: when we realise sex isn’t everything, our relationship would be better and people would stop cheating too. Building a relationship where you are good friends with your partner is more important because that’s what would keep you both going when you are old and can’t have sex. Just think about it.
5. TREAT YOUR PARTNER AS YOU WOULD TREAT YOURSELF: just imagine we treat our partners the way we treat ourselves, we would definitely have less conflict. No man can slap himself so why slap your partner? If you can’t do bad to yourself, then you shouldn’t hurt your partner. Our partners deserve to be treated the way we treat ourselves.

As humans, we should learn to be more honest. I believe honesty is the keyword if we want to make the world a better place. If we are honest, we won’t cheat, lie or hurt our partners.
Lets make the world a better place to live in.