Sex is always a big thing and first dates aren’t a small thing
either, as they are filled with certain suspense, questions and
inquisitiveness like ‘ifs’ and ‘buts’; meaning sex and first dates are
two variables that can cause a stir on its own, talk more about a
combination of both.
Sex on the first date is risky, mostly for the ladies; the odds that
the relationship would go on the right foot after a quick launch in
between the sheets is quite minimal. Naturally, men are like hunters,
the harder the meat he catches, the more value he gives to it and the
lesser meat doesn’t mean much to him. In other words, if a lady can lead
a man on before finally letting him, it would be more like he’s earned
the right to become that intimate with you.
Secondly, passion means a lot in a relationship; having sex all too
quickly would kill the passion of waiting for the right time. Sex can
kill the passion in a relationship especially if it comes too quickly or
hurriedly. When you bid your time, you build the passion and desire,
and you also enjoy the whole process of a man trying to be charming
enough to win your heart.
Thirdly, the test factor is always important; jumping into sex is too
big a decision to make hastily. With the test factor, you get to know
if he’s just there for the sex or he really cares; with the test factor,
you get to know who he really is, you get to know more about him and
this is really important, knowing a lot about a man you intend dating is
really a must if you want to build a successful relationship.
Sex on the first date might be fun but a successful relationship
isn’t just about fun, it needs maturity and an understanding partner —
sex can wait while you sort first things first.
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