For a lady to have no man in her life isn’t a feat that’s applauded all over the world; when a lady has no fiancé, boyfriend, husband then people just seem to presume that there’s something wrong in her life.
Being single for a lady doesn’t really mean anything except you want to make something of it; being in a relationship doesn’t give anyone an edge, the most important thing in a relationship is finding that person that can make you happy, someone you truly care about and someone that also cares about you should be the priority for every relationship.
However, the single lady is always faced with different questions of different kinds, and there are so many of such she’s tired of hearing.
Every single lady wants to stop answering certain questions, questions like:
1. WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?
This question is quite irritating, you don’t force a relationship from nowhere; people just feel everyone has the power not to remain single; that is, they can be in a relationship whenever they want to, notwithstanding if there is someone available or not. To many people, it’s better to be in a relationship no matter what than to be single. The single lady hates being interrogated unnecessarily about her relationship status.
2. WHEN WOULD YOU HAVE A MAN IN YOUR LIFE?
This question isn’t just irritating but it is as well annoying. It’s funny how even mothers ask their daughters when they would have a man in their life; this kind of pressure could even make a single lady jump into a relationship with any Tom, Dick and Harry. The priority should always be having a good man and not having a man.
3. HOW DO YOU COPE WITH BEING LONELY?
Being single doesn’t mean you are lonely; some single ladies that aren’t in a relationship are living a fulfilled life even more than many women in relationships. People tend to attach being single to being lonely, but a single lady has little or even nothing to do with loneliness and it’s frustrating when a lady is single and people think she’s lonely
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