HOW FAR SHOULD SHARED FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES GO IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE?

Hello people, welcome to another segment of our Elcrema Sunday love special, a segment dedicated strictly to talks about what goes in relationships. This is going to be the last Elcrema Sunday Love Special of the year 2014, and just like everyone else I’m also looking forward to the New Year and a greater Elcrema Sunday Love Special. It’s important to note that we couldn’t...

5 NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS EVERY SINGLE LADY SHOULD CONSIDER MAKING

It’s been an amazing 2014 and it’s time to start planning how we make 2015 a successful year. If you are a single lady, I have got 5 brilliants ideas that should make your New Year resolution list. Below are 5 New Year resolutions every single lady should consider making: 1. YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER MAKING NEW FRIENDS: if you want to ensure you don’t end 2015 single again,...

6 WAYS YOU CAN ENCOURAGE A PARTNER TO EVEN DO MORE

When you have a partner that’s doing some things which you like and make you happy then you have every reason to encourage such a person. Rather than go up against each other, partners ought to support and encourage each other to make a better relationship. If encouragement is lacking in a relationship then such a relationship might not last too long. By now, we know...

WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET MARRIED? 6 THINGS TO ALWAYS CONSIDER

Marriage could be the best thing that could happen in your life and could also be the worst thing you would ever experience if not done at the right time. I was drawn to a recent comment by a reader asking when the right time is to get married. That’s a very important question but it isn’t one that should be answered in a hurry. Such a question is one that...

STUDY HAS DISCOVERED THE THREE MOST SENSITIVE PARTS IN A WOMAN’S BODY

Men are always curious as to what parts of a woman’s body is the most sensitive to touch; well fellas, today is your lucky day as science has confirmed the spots women are most sensitive to. Canadian scientists did a research to figure out which parts of a woman’s body are the most erogenous. The researchers studied 3o healthy women between the ages of 18 and 35, undressed...

5 SECRETS OF HAPPY COUPLES

We all want our marriage or relationship to be a happy one but sometimes we just don’t know what to do. The truth is there is no simple formula out there to make your marriage or relationship a happy one but there are some secrets all happy couples have in common. Below are 5 secrets of happy couples 1. THEY APPRECIATE THEMSELVES: after being in a marriage or relationship...

SHOULD MARRIED WOMEN CUT OFF THEIR SINGLE FRIENDS?

It isn’t unusual that when some women get married they tend to slightly disassociate with their former (single) friends and probably form a new circle of friends. I stumbled across a piece nicely written by stylish psychologist, Adejoro Olumofin. He titled this “Let’s talk Volume 1. (Should married women cut off their single friends?)” Enjoy: Psychometrics has shown...

7 MASCULINE FEATURES MOST WOMEN RESPOND TO

There are some basic elements a man possesses that could trigger a woman’s emotion or mind-set, and when her emotions have been triggered anything can happen from them onwards. If you have some or most of these features then you would have the ladies coming in their droves but if you have none of them then getting a lady to admire you would really be a tough one. Have...

6 OF THE BEST CHRISTMAS MESSAGES TO SEND YOUR PARTNER THIS CHRISTMAS

Christmas is here again and the celebrations have kicked off all over. If you are thinking of messages to send your partner, I have got 6 of the best Christmas messages. Below are the messages that would put a smile on the face of your partner 1. You are the gift I ask Santa for every Christmas. Merry Christmas to the one I love. 2. Having you as my lover makes me feel...

5 THINGS EVERY SINGLE LADY SHOULD KNOW

While some ladies treat being single as normal, others hate it when they are single; they just get too frustrated when they are single. For all the single ladies out there, I have got 5 things you need to know 1. DON’T WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS SAY: It’s so easy to get frustrated and worry too much if you are a single woman who is in her 30s. The pressure from friends...

5 REASONS WHY MEN ARE SCARED OF MARRIAGE

Before now, men believed in marriage. More men understood the significance of the union, and what it means to have a person in your life with whom you can share your life, and raise a family with; but today, the story isn’t quite the same. More men are running away from marriage, and it’s alarming. Rather than get married, more men want to live the single life longer than is acceptable. So...

5 KINDS OF PEOPLE YOU MUST NEVER MARRY!

Marriage always is a different ball game from dating. When you’re dating for the fun of it, some things can be tolerated, but if you’re dating someone with the thought of marrying them someday, then you must be very careful in the choice of partner you make because whatever decisions you take can have a long-lasting effect on your life. You must ensure you avoid certain...

TOP 6 LIES MEN TELL JUST TO GET INTO YOUR PANTS

If a man really wants a woman he perceives he can’t get the easy way, he usually cooks up different stories he can tell her to win her heart (more like deceive her into giving in to his desires), and that is why women must be more careful in dealing with men. When a guy comes your way, be sure to access him properly, lest you fall for one of the following lies…the top...

DO YOU KNOW THAT QUARRELLING WITH YOUR PARTNER HAS AN ADVERSE EFFECT ON YOUR BODY? 7 RESEARCHES THAT PROVE SO

I hate the saying that it’s okay for partners to argue; when you feel it’s okay to argue then you would argue with your partner. After an argument, you would feel it’s okay and then another and another and another, till arguments become a usual part of the relationship. Yes, you may reach a point where friction would come between you and your partner, it might be normal...

SHOULD MARRIAGE BE THE ULTIMATE REASON WHY WE DATE?

Should getting married to a person be the only reason why we enter a relationship with that person? Is it right to make marriage the ultimate goal? This question will definitely divide opinions and it was in fact a topic of a heated debate between my pals the last time we hanged out. Some argued if you are in a relationship where there is no potential for marriage, you...

10 Reasons Why Men Prefer Dating Younger Women

A good percentage of men nowadays will attest to having the urge to date women who are at least five years younger than they are. Why? As it is with men, they are attracted to pretty younger ladies who are still able to maintain themselves. The kind of lady who still wakes up, dresses to kill, wears make up and by the time they step out of...

6 REASONS YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE A PARTNER THAT’S TRYING SO HARD

To be a good partner isn’t easy, but even at that, to find a good partner is an even harder task. I mean if there were better partners there would be lesser divorces, fewer scenes of domestic violence, lesser breakups and heart breaks, lesser feeling of loneliness and rejection, lesser unhappiness rate in relationship—I can go on and on The fact that there...

NOT FOR LAUGHS: 7 FUNNY THINGS GUYS DO AFTER A BREAKUP

Men also feel terrible after a bad breakup even though we act all stoics and put up a James Bond appearance after a bad breakup —deep down we feel terrible too and do some funny stuffs that would make us laugh years later. A study even found that men are more emotional than women, just that men are better at hiding their emotions. Well, the guys have had their...

5 SIGNS HE IS DATING YOU BECAUSE OF THE SEX AND NOTHING MORE

So ladies, you met this great dude and you have probably had some nights of amazing sex with him; you want more but something deep inside you tells you all this guy wants is sex and nothing more. Below are 5 signs he is dating you because of the amazing sex he gets from you and nothing more 1. YOU DON’T KNOW HIS FRIENDS: Men love showing off and they are always...

6 THINGS YOU JUST SHOULDN’T ALLOW IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

There are countless things one should never tolerate in a relationship, though many of these things are a lot easier said than done. Being humans, we’re complex species, and while we may know that we shouldn’t be with someone for some reason, sometimes, we stick around instead of just letting go and moving on. However, I believe we are all worthy beings, and no matter what,...

IS YOUR PARTNER UNROMANTIC? 6 WAYS YOU CAN HELP

I’ve heard so many people complain of their partner being so unromantic; dating an unromantic partner could be such a bore especially when you see other couples being affectionate in a romantic way. However, I think it’s somewhat wrong complaining about a partner being unromantic because it wouldn’t do anything in changing that partner rather it would take the relationship to...

5 COMPLIMENTS EVERY HUSBAND WANTS FROM A WIFE…MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE LAST

Do men really need compliments? That might be a question most women would ask after seeing the header. Your husband might act all strong on the outside and even pretend compliments don’t matter but the truth is deep inside he yearns for them. Below are compliments every husband wishes to hear from his wife 1. LET HIM KNOW TIME SPENT WITH HIM IS THE BEST: Every...

10 THINGS EVERY MATURE RELATIONSHIP PARTNER KNOWS

Maturity is a quality that’s often lacking in many relationship partners; men/women that are even advanced in age fall prey to immaturity most times without knowing and this leads to the demise of most relationships. There are some basic things a mature relationship partner knows and adheres to and that’s why such a partner is always adored. With maturity the relationship...

5 SCIENTIFIC REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD KISS

A kiss is a touch or caress with the lips as a sign of love, sexual desire, or greeting. Kissing isn’t just a sign of love and affection; it also has some amazing benefits too. If you haven’t kissed your partner today, here are 5 scientific reasons why you should kiss them now 1. IT LOWERS YOUR STRESS LEVELS: Are you going through a lot of stress? If the answer is yes,...

THE CRAZY THINGS LOVE MAKES YOU DO

Most of us (maybe all of us) have been in this situation before where we did crazy things in the name of love. Toke Makinwa talks about this issue and it’s a must watch for everyone who has ever fallen in l...