IS YOUR PARTNER UNROMANTIC? 6 WAYS YOU CAN HELP

I’ve heard so many people complain of their partner being so unromantic; dating an unromantic partner could be such a bore especially when you see other couples being affectionate in a romantic way.

However, I think it’s somewhat wrong complaining about a partner being unromantic because it wouldn’t do anything in changing that partner rather it would take the relationship to a whole new low and would kill the happiness in the relationship.
Albeit, the fact that your partner isn’t romantic doesn’t mean such a person can’t change—it all depends on you and how you handle the situation.

6 ways you can help a partner that isn’t romantic.
1. TALK ABOUT IT
You can always tell your partner in a loving and subtle way how to be romantic. Not everyone knows how to be romantic and it’s really no fault of theirs as what’s romantic to one person might not necessarily be to another. Tell your partner what you like and what appeals to you and be caring and loving in your approach and your partner would probably learn.

2. BE ROMANTIC, HE/SHE WOULD LEARN
You could even be unromantic yourself and could probably be killing your partner for committing the same crime as you. Action really speaks louder than words; be romantic to your partner and it would rub on him/her with time. Be romantic not because you only want your partner to become romantic, but be romantic to your partner because you care about your partner and you are an affectionate person—with this, your partner would even feel more blessed to have you and would try to return the gesture till he/she becomes accustomed to it.

3. APPRECIATE THE LITTLE YOUR PARTNER IS DOING
There is something about appreciation that opens doors for even more. When you appreciate the little romantic gestures your partner does, you are unknowingly tempting such a partner to do even more. Appreciation is hundred percent more effective than persuasion.

4. DON’T BE UNREALISTIC
This is one mistake people with unromantic partners continually make and this is probably the case because they have their eyes cast on another person’s relationship. Don’t make that mistake of comparing or envying another person’s relationship; you can never tell the true story no matter what, rather build your relationship to be better with each day. Don’t set unrealistic targets for your partner just because you want your partner to be romantic.

5. DON’T BE PUSHY  
This is also another important tip when trying to influence your partner to be romantic. If you notice I used the word ‘influence’ not change; you shouldn’t try to change your partner because that would be too pushy; influence your partner to being romantic and while doing that, be patient about it.
6. BEING ROMANTIC DOESN’T REALLY MEAN LOVE
You might have the most romantic man or woman in the world as your partner that can thrill you with all sorts of romantic gestures but that doesn’t mean you have a partner that loves you—your partner could be so unromantic but still love you passionately. Would you rather go for romance or love? If you really do have that partner that truly loves you, I think you shouldn’t kill yourself but rather follow these aforementioned tips and your partner could become even better.