I was reading a research recently and the
crux is that many ladies today don't know
how to respect or love a man, especially
when they are married. They carry their
But for those who are serious to win the
man's heart and be a good wife, this is for
you.
Many marriages break down these days
because our generation of women has
become weak and lazy. They no longer
pamper their man as necessary. They allow
the men to run wild and cheat anyhow.
Ladies, if you want to win your man, then
you must observe and do these things...
1. Behave like a true female, i.e. all the
tenderness of a female – a man doesn't
want a "man" for his wife! A perfect wife is
one who doesn't expect a perfect husband.
How we handle our husband's
shortcomings reveals more about our own
character than our husbands.
2. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a
home-maker, don't stay in your sleeping
suit all day. Go to the market, buy push ups
and G-strings.
3. Smell good at all times!
4. Don't lay out all your problems on your
husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a
little mental break or You will unconsciously
send him to a beer parlour.
5. Don't keep asking him, "what are you
thinking?"
6. Stop nagging.
7. Absolutely no talking about your spousal
problems to anyone you meet, not even
under the pretense of seeking help! If you
think you want to solve legitimate marital
issues, Do it yourself and don't run to a
third party unless its a life threatening
issue. Mediate any injustice done, Talk it
over after he calms down. Allow him
whenever he is angry. dont talk back so any
wrong can be corrected and the couple can
reunite in harmony.
8. Be kind to your mother-in-law the same
way you would like your husband to be
kind to your own mother.
9. Learn all the rights and obligations of
each other. Focus on fulfilling your
obligations, not demanding your rights.
10. Race to the door when he comes home,
as if you were waiting for him. Smile and
hug him.
11. Keep your house clean, at least to the
level that he wants it.
12. Compliment him on the things you
know he's not so confident about (looks,
intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-
esteem.
13. Always tell him he's the best husband
ever.
14. Call his family often.
15. Give him a simple task to do at home
and then thank him when he does it. This
will encourage him to do more.
16. When he's talking about something
boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask
questions to make it seem like you're
interested.
17. Encourage him to do charity.
18. If he's in a bad mood, give him some
space. He'll get over it.
19. Thank him sincerely for providing you
with food and shelter. It's a big deal.
20. If he's angry with you and starts yelling,
let him yell it out while you're quiet. You will
see your fight will end a lot faster. Then
when he's calm, you can tell him your side
of the story and how you want him to
change something.
21. When you're mad at him, don't say "YOU
make me furious", rather, "This action
makes me upset". Direct your anger to the
action and circumstance rather than at him.
22. Remember that your husband has
feelings, so take them into consideration.
23. Let him chill with his friends without
guilt, especially if they're good guys.
Encourage him to go out, so he doesn't feel
"cooped up" at home.
24. If your husband is annoyed over a little
thing you do (and you can control it), then
stop doing it. Really.
25. Learn how to tell him what you expect
without him having to guess all the time.
Learn to communicate your feelings.
26. Don't get mad over small things. It's not
worth it.
27. Make jokes. If you're not naturally funny,
go on the internet and read some jokes,
and then tell them to him.
28. Tell him you're the best wife ever and
compliment yourself on certain things you
know you're good at.
29. Learn to make his favorite dish. If he
like suya, learn to make suya, if na peper
soup and agidi, learn and make it at home,
isi ewu etc
30. Don't ever, EVER talk bad about him
with friends or family unnecessarily. If they
end up agreeing with you, you will see that
it hits you back in the face because you get
more depressed that you have a bad
husband–and other people also think you
have a bad husband.
31. Use your time wisely and get things
accomplished. If you're a home-maker, take
online classes and get active in your
community. This will make you happy and a
secondary bonus is that it impresses your
husband.
32. Love him and cherish him.
33. Husband and wife should discuss and
communicate with wisdom with each other
to convey what they like and dislike of each
other to do or not to do. Do NOT give
commands or instructions like he's your
servant. "They are garment to each other"
34. Tell your husband you love him, many,
many times.
35. Have a race or play a game with your
husband and let him win, even if you are
much fitter and stronger than him.
36. Keep fit and take care of your health so
you will remain a strong mother, wife, cook
and housekeeper, you will not get FAT and
frumpy.
37. Refine and cultivate good mannerisms
i.e do not whine, don't laugh or talk too
loud or walk like an elephant.
38. Do not leave the house without his
permission and certainly not without his
knowledge.
39. Make sure all his clothes are clean and
pressed so he is always looking fresh and
crisp.
40. Don't discuss important/controversial
matters with him when he is tired or
sleepy. Find right time for right discussion.
41. The way to a man's heart is through his
stomach. lol
42. Always let him know that you
appreciate him working and bringing
home the "dough". It makes it easier for
him to go to work.
43. Make sure you ALWAYS have something
for dinner.
44. Brush your hair, everyday and your
teeth too.
45. Don't forget to do laundry.
46. Surprise him with gifts. Even
necessities, such as new shoes, can be
gifts.
47. Listen to him. (Even when he talks
about extremely boring things like
basketball or computers.)
48. Try (hard as it might be) to take interest
in his hobbies, support his football team (if
any).
49. Try not to go shopping too much... and
spend all his money.
50. Look attractive and be seductive
towards him. Flirt with him. INITIATE SEX
51. Learn tricks and "techniques" to please
your husband in intimacy. Suck his penis
always and swallow if need be or someone
else will do it for you out side. Always bury
his penis inside of you at least twice a day
and he will be to tired and buried to cheat.
Never refuse him any sex position he
wants. (Of course goes both ways.)
52. Prepare for special evenings with him
with special dinner and exclusive time (no
children permitted).
53. Take care of your skin, especially your
face. The face is center of attraction.
54. If you not satisfied intimately, talk to
him and tell him. Help him or provide
resources, don't wait until matters become
worse.
55. Ask God to strengthen and preserve the
bonds of compassion and love between the
two of you, every day, every prayer. Ask him
to protect that bond.
56. Don't EVER compare your husbands to
other husbands! For example don't say,
"well her husband doesn't do that, why do
you..." (that's a killer!)
57. Be happy with what you have because
no one is perfect.
58. Strive for Gods love first and foremost!
59. Men are big babies, make them feel
loved. Mother them and make sure you
breast feed him once in a while.
60. Don't go reporting him to your brother
(s), especially if he is richer than them. Be a
respectful wife!
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